Kungsleden Day 6 – Protest and Passion

12 miles

My legs protest as I turn from our little camp along the lake and head north on the last day of our Kungsleden section hike. Three days of waking ten or more miles a day around Stockholm followed by five days on the Kungsleden has turned my normal gait into an abridged shuffle. One which takes an hour plodding under the moody low-slung clouds to work itself out and set my legs to churning across the marsh and miles. Glacial valleys pass into rain-soaked valleys which dip and roll into sparse forest. More than sixty miles and in some ways we are exactly where we started, in an arctic forest crossing river after river, some bridged others requiring dancing steps across moss-laden rocks.

If I am being honest, our campsite for the night cannot come soon enough. However, since crossing into Abisko National Park we are relegated to one of two campgrounds along the trail. And so, despite passing a number of viable options I trudge on through tired muscles and a grumbling stomach. Yet, this is not to say I am not fully enraptured by the experience. But rather that joy, unlike fun, comes at the junction of effort and passion. In this moment I am exhausted and my feet hurt and I smell in a way that is both unpleasant and unflattering. And yet, I spent today, tired moments and all, pointing to glaciers peaking through the clouds, watching mama birds wrangle her chicks, and sharing it all with one of the people I love most in this ridiculous world of ours. The discomfort, the pain, they are tied together with the wonder. Without the effort I would not have these moments and it is that which breeds joy.

Kungsleden Day 5 – Fine Dining

9 miles

Below me an aquamarine Scandinavian lake twinkles merrily back up at me while in the distance a cascading waterfall provides a soothing auditory backdrop. In the eternal golden hour that marks both evening and night at this northern latitude I am even spared the flying nuisance of mosquitos. At least for now. A fine dinner scene indeed. And in my bowl a grey-brown paste. A feast of rehydrated beef stew mashed potatoes and something unidentifiably crunchy, evidence that in our haste to eat Keith and I didn’t add enough water to our food. And you know what, my dear reader? It’s absolutely delicious. The play of gluey texture atop random crunchy bits melds with the flavor of brown meat and brown sauce and the occasional bit of onion. Wrapped in the pillowy soft tortilla that has been riding shotgun in my backpack for several days now leads to a culinary masterpiece the likes of which cannot be found on the streets of even the most elevated metropolis. They say that food in the backcountry taste better than the stuff you make at home. And on days like today I can’t figure out who would think such a thing.

Kungsleden Day 4 – Rudolph in the Rain

8 miles

Through the misting drizzle that is becoming a theme on this trip I see a collection of moving rocks strolling gently along the far side of the river. In thinking better than sentient rocks I realize that what I’m seeing are grazing reindeer. Their gently snuffling noses picking through moss and rocks in search of the choicest grass. Keith and I stand for long minutes watching the beauties in their silver-grey coats as jingles from my childhood dance through my head. Unfortunately, finally, the rain and wind get to be too much and we continue our push up to the pass. For the last three days we have climbed methodically up this massive drainage and today we will tip gently into the next one where the rain, ever the rain follows us towards camp.

By the time we hit our mileage for the day we are wet and have been for most of the day. What is worse is that the wind has picked up and has no sign of clearing until well into tomorrow. However, there’s an out. The Kungsleden, like other trails I’ve hiked in Europe, supply a series of backcountry huts offering hikers the opportunity to either wild camp or else pay a moderate fee to sleep in a bunk-style cabin. And tonight I push Keith into abandoning setting up our wet camp and paying for a buck. It’s a decision that which bares some internal dilemma. As an avid outdoors person and someone who posts about this aspect of their life online, I feel the need to put my brave face on, to tough out hard situations so that some invisible audience might think me worthy of their attention. While my more accepting self reminds me that sometimes being out in nature is kinda crap and really sometimes sleeping inside is awesome. And besides, nature is what we make of it, and being challenged is amazing and I love it, but not always and not tonight.

Kungsleden Day 3 – Hej

10 miles

Grapefruit. Microwave. Textbook. Golf ball. All made of rock and strewn across the ground, rubbed free of grass under thousands of walking feet and called the trail. Rocks of all sizes pass beneath my feet, taking ten steps to navigate what would normally be three. I have come to recognize this braided, minimally maintained type of trail as iconic of hiking in Europe. And, used to my more groomed American trails I struggle along across the Kungsleden, marveling at how long it can take to walk a kilometer.

Today the Kungsleden rolls like a dragon’s back. Straight up and over hills, down the back side and repeat, repeat, repeat. Occasionally I am treated to fifty or a hundred feet of rock-free hiking and each time I savor the buttery smooth trail like I am falling into a perfectly made bed. All this rock hopping, all this concerted effort not to break an ankle means that there is precious little energy to greet my fellow hikers. With each one I share a monotone ‘hej’ (pronounced ‘hey’) and receive one in return before eyes are drawn back to the walking puzzle of a so-called trail. Though almost certainly nobody’s first language here is Swedish, we’re all just trying to get by and get along and one cordial greeting is as good as the next.

Below the sun but above the rocks I notice the knuckles on my hand are growing into their summer coats, building out their summer tan. Tan knuckles with a pale band where the straps of my trekking poles always sit. I’m proud of these little tan lines, a memento of my travels which fades each year only to be replaced the following summer.

That night we set our camp next to a rolling river and beneath a river of mosquitos.

Kungsleden Day 2 – Into the Mouths of Giants

9 miles

I wake from a night that never was again and again, each time certain as the daylight outside my tent that it is time to start the day. When finally my watch reads 6:30am I abandon the effort to sleep and rise. Outside the tent a hoard of mosquitos have also taken note of the memo that it is finally daytime, their incessant whining accompanies me as I slowly much my way through my morning cereal. As eager as I am to start hiking I am less than enthused by the airborne nuisance that will greet me as soon as I unzip my tent door. And yet, nobody has ever made miles by sitting in their tent, so bug spray in hand I thrust myself through the door and frantically coat myself in picaridin before I can accumulate any further bites. I am only partially successful.



The day starts with a short but brutal climb, the creators of the Kungsleden having never heard of the magic that is switchbacks. A series of short falls cascade past, dropping from the basin of a long valley down a thousand feet to Lake Teusajaure waiting deep and silent below. It is this same valley that we will work our way through for the next two days. And what a valley it it, dear reader. Carved by eons of glaciers and kept verdant via a broad winding river. And on all sides are gargantuan sloping peaks. The scale of this region is enough not to just make one feel insignificant but invisible. The wildness, the remoteness. To put it into words is to do it a disservice, to capture it in images is to show but the slimmest glimpse of the scale. I am walking towards the top of the world, drawn north by nothing more than my own desires and tired legs.

Kungsleden Day 1 – The Night that Never Was

Day 1 – 10 miles

The night train rumbles north from Stockholm under the lingering twilight of the Swedish summer sky. In my tiny railcar bunk I rock from side to side as the train winds from the city center, through dwindling suburbs and finally away from civilization entirely as telephone poles give way to endless rows of ramrod straight birch trees, their silver skin glowing in the pale light. Where we are headed the sun will never fully set, instead spinning in a lazy arc above us as it does every year during the highest days of summer.

We depart the train in early morning and climb aboard a bus heading north, always north, always towards the mountains. Keith and I are tackling the northernmost 60 something miles of the Kungsleden, Sweden’s oldest hiking trail which runs 290 miles through the Lapland from Hemavan to Abisko. The Lapland is the name given to the nearly-uninhabited land in the northernmost region of Finland, Denmark and Sweden. The Kungsleden could be likened to America’s John Muir Trail in that it is a highlight reel of some of the best nature in the country. After some hours of increasingly narrow roads the bus deposits us in a dirt pull-off and finally, finally it is time to hike. The trail is immediately unrelenting and my pack feels heavy and unwieldy beneath seven days worth of food. Whoever designed the Kungsleden was clearly unfamiliar with the concept of switchbacks. We climb straight up until all of a sudden the trees drop away, the horizon expands, and we are walking like water droplets rolling from the shoulders of giants.

The terrain here wears no mask but its own as I try to liken it to places I’ve been before. And I suppose in that unwillingness to be codified this land has begun to nestle its way into my heart. Throughout the afternoon we play leapfrog with stream crossings and fellow hikers until the evening where we find ourselves mercifully alone in a little campground near the rushing waters cascading down what we will climb up tomorrow. Turning to my familiar backcountry bed I am grateful to find myself held by the nature I know I can always return to.

Australia part 2 – Proficiently

Cradle Mountain National Park, Tasmania

Cradle Mountain to the right, before the clouds moved in.

The chain is cool beneath my fingers, rock damp beneath my feet, and my body is moving, if not powerfully, then at least competently up a rock face so steep I have to pull myself hand-over-hand up a dangling chain. “This is just going to be hard until it’s not,” filters up into the back of my brain, a refrain from the earliest days of this trip. Back when every hike felt brutally difficult and the only reason I finished some of them was because I refused to quit, no matter how slow or how long it required. It felt like my fitness was forever in the making, each hike so infinitesimally faster than the last I hardly sensed any progress at all. It seems a surprise miracle then that things have grown easier. Not easy; because hiking is never easy, you just go faster or further or steeper. But at least easier, and within my body I feel a sense of competence both familiar and elusive.

I pause, allowing Keith to scale the next pitch of rock while I take in the scenery around me. We are hiking a loop around Tasmania’s Cradle Mountain, a peak nestled in the interior of the state. Rising up from dirt roads, farms, and vast stretches of eucalyptus trees comes the brief ripple of foothills before the jagged summit fin juts into the sky. At its base and below me lays Dove lake, its waters dyed nearly black with tannins from the surrounding vegetation. Above me the sudden rock walls of Cradle Mountain are swaddled in an encapsulating batting of grey clouds. It means there will be no summit bid for us today, just a long and pleasantly challenging loop around its base.

Though rain threatens all day it never arrives. A mercy given the steep bare-rock nature of the trail that on more than one occasion forces me to sit on my butt and scooch myself down off a drop of some feet. The hike is fun challenging, not brutal challenging and I’m extremely grateful for it. It feels like finally there might be a way forward into a body that feels more like my own.

Australia part 1 – Tumble Down Rocks

Hobart to Queenstown, Tasmanian

The country outside my window jumbles and bumps along in a way that is distinctly the Tasmanian bush while simultaneously reminding me of a dozen other landscapes. Hard packed umber dirt sprouts bone white trees which reach their branchless arms skyward. A thousand, thousand cheerleaders waving faded green pom poms of leaves into the flat, blue sky. It’s captivating. Foreign and unique the landscape draws the eye to rest upon the details: a jaunty cropping of rocks, a haggard yet epic ridgeline, stepped flats above muddy waters. I want to stare, to understand and know the lands of this southern little island. I want to mash my face into the dirt and let it tell me its stories. I want to spend not just time, but intimacy with this new place. Which, is just as well seeing as Keith and I are making the four hour drive from Hobart to Queenstown Tasmanian via a stop-over at the long-defunct Waddamana Power Station—because that’s just the kind of engineering nerd Keith is.

Forced to slow down on the dirt roads of the bush, I have my time to sit and watch while a half-listened-to book plays in the background. It’s just enough input for my hummingbird mind to slow and allow me to observe my own thoughts. Fall, I love fall, I think. And I think, I might just be falling in love with this strange little island with its cool, crisp mornings and the feeling of being away from almost everything else. The unpaved, barely inhabited interior of the island is away from civilization, yes, but on a global scale the very location of Tasmanian feels isolated in a way that has called to me. We’re closer to the south pole than we are to Seattle and that sense of vastness, of geographic loneliness breeds a curiosity that verges on longing.

These thoughts, but others as well. I think about sitting on my couch in my tiny apartment, about riding my skateboard and joining a gym. About building a routine for myself—something I both resent and know I do better beneath. Part of me, perhaps a larger part, is ready for this trip to be over. And I sort of hate that. In my vision of myself I am the endless traveler who never tires of the road, whose curiosity is never quieted. But honesty, I’ve found, is so often battering when it forces us to confront the actual that we wish and the actual that we are. When I set out on this trip, I thought three and a half months would never be enough. The great New Zealand circus to which I was running away would never grow tiresome. And in so many of the ways that it matters, it hasn’t grown old. The wonder is still there, nestled in its home inside my heart. But I feel that I have grown weary, and in that found myself wanting, not to stop but to rest, at least for a little while.

Queenstown, interior Tasmanian. Because I absolutely forgot to take pictures today.

New Zealand part 16 – Other People’s Hair

The Giant Sand Dunes south of Cape Reinga are a monumental wonder. Blown high by roaring winds whipping off the Tasman Sea they march inland like the shoulders of so many hulking soldiers in formation. As I watch Keith scurry towards the top of the tallest dune all I can think is: I really don’t give a fuck. To which I then immediately feel guilty because shouldn’t I like, give a fuck? To be here, in this moment, near this geographic anomaly. Isn’t this worthy of fuck giving? But the guilt fails to overpower my detached boredom and so I turn my back on the dunes and return to the car. Forgoing a sandy scramble for a snack and a nap.

I’m burning out. And the speed at which we’ve been moving across the North Island has become unsustainable.

We’ve been staying in more places for less time and packing in more social engagements so we can be sure to visit with everybody we want to see. And while it has been amazing, it’s hard to maintain the #stoke when you’re not getting enough rest. The small things, once easy to laugh off become an annoyance. It’s no longer cute finding a stranger’s hair in your underwear after using yet another poorly-maintained hostel dryer. Or having to carry around one muddy sock because it somehow didn’t make it into the wash. Or being confusingly misgendered for the thousandth time by a stranger with a lilting accent. As a result, the things that I really would like to give a fuck about lose some of their sparkle when viewed through tired eyes. Not only am I tried, I worry that I’m failing to travel the at the impeccable standard of constant engagement I feel I owe myself.

And here is where another lesson from my thru hike of the Pacific Crest Trail comes in. When you’re burning out on something, especially long-term travel, you have to acknowledge your desires even if they feel lame or embarrassing. And then you have to change what you’re doing in the sake of self and trip preservation. On the PCT that meant changing when we started hiking each morning, taking more rest days, and spending more time hiking alone so we could really decompress. And it worked, we finished the trail by finding ways to make wading through the bullshit and exhaustion more enjoyable so that we’d have more energy to enjoy the reasons we were on that trip in the first place.

Our time in New Zealand is almost over, and as we drive south to Auckland the plan is not to finish the trip with a bang but rather a bed in a nice hotel. We’re hitting the reset and reset button to avoid burnout after so much time on the road. Because while our time in New Zealand is  over, the trip isn’t yet at an end. Next up: Australia.

New Zealand part 15 – 97

I’m standing under the bright sun in the Hamilton gardens when I learn that my grandfather is dying. The stunted, somewhat unremarkable gardens take on a frustrating quality; the children too loud, the exhibits too basic, and the numerous dead ends of the garden layout endemic of the kind of anemic design only bureaucracy can produce. I hate it here in a way that has nothing to do with the actual gardens. So we finish our lap of the exhibits because I genuinely don’t know what else to do and head out to the car park. In the car I tell Keith what has happened and we pass a morose, subdued ride back to the hotel.

Even as I write this weeks later with my grandfather no longer alive I am struggling to put my feelings into words. Of course it is sad, and horrible, and tragic, but I feel so few of those sensations most acutely towards myself. My heart breaks at the tragedy of my grandmother losing her husband of more than 70 years. I feel disspondent when I think of the pain my father and his siblings must feel now that they have lost a parent. The scale of a life lost at 97 years old carries with it the weight of decades and generations. For the first 34 years of my life my grandfather was alive and that will never be true again. The span of his life was enormous and in its wake lays an enormous number of relationships and conversations and minutes spent together which, from this moment onward, will live inside my memories next to a person-shaped hole in my heart.

Besides, they say, it’s not exactly shocking when someone dies at 97. And I did know that, and I do know that. When Keith and I visited with my grandparents in November I knew there was a chance I would be seeing one or both of them for the last time. Though how dearly I wanted to be wrong. How I tried to tie myself back to them through letters and updates on our trip. At times feeling guilty that I didn’t write more, didn’t tie enough of those strings to each of us so that we may feel each other’s presence from half a world away. Because while some might say that a death at 97 isn’t shocking, I think I may also be forgiven for thinking that at 97, he might just have lived forever.